Punishments vs. Consequences: Teach Your Teen the Difference
When I work with parents of teenagers, our conversations inevitably turn toward discipline.
“How do get my teen to follow the rules?”
“My teen won’t clean up after himself. What should I do?”
“Nothing I do seems to have any effect on her!”
Discipline with teenagers is complicated. They are at an age where it is important to give them more freedom and responsibility, but many parents feel like they have few tools at their disposal to hold teens accountable. When they were toddlers, a simple “timeout” often sufficed, but now that they are teenagers the solutions don’t feel so simple.